How To Watch Porn Together For The First Time – Without An Argument
“Really, why would I want to do that?”
“Where should I start?”
Do you really think it’s that crazy to watch porn together?
I also know there’s several of you that either have, or do watch porn on a regular basis. A lot of men and women watch porn. Sure, the genres might differ a bit, but the thing a lot of people don’t know how to do is……watch it with their partner or know how to ask without starting a huge thing..
This can be a challenge if you don’t follow a few simple tips. Obviously all situations are different, but here are some ways to overcome common barriers.
- “I don’t want to pay for porn”
Go to Google (open an incognito browser of you want) and type in “free porn” The top 4-5 results should serve you well.
- “I don’t want to risk getting a virus on my computer”
Go to the local adult store and pick up a DVD.
- “I’m afraid my partner will say no or judge me for asking”
(Below is my favorite way to bring up something like this)
Casually bring up that you ran into (friend name here) at the (gym/store/gas station/lunch) and he/she told you a hilarious story of how (he/she) tried watching porn for the first time with (his/her) partner. He/she said it turned out being pretty entertaining. After the initial shock, they began to get turned on and let it play while they fooled around.
This works best if you don’t see this friend all the time. Before you get all high and mighty on me saying you shouldn’t lie to your partner about……
I get it, but remember, this is for the good of the relationship. Spicing it up in the bedroom is more important to a lot of people than fibbing about running into Jack at the gym. Your choice.
If you and your partner have already joked or mentioned you both have / do watch porn… this is even easier to watch porn together Clearly, because you just have to ask something open-ended:
“What do you like to watch?” “What kinds of videos turn you on?”
(Followed up with an eventual…. (can you show me sometime / now?) The rest usually comes pretty natural.
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We will be writing much more content to help couples achieve a better sex life. How are we going to do this? Tons of couples struggle with the thought of “talking” about their romantic needs. Instead of telling someone what you want and need, you stay quiet.
I’m sure I don’t have to tell you what usually happens (down the road) if your romantic needs are not being fulfilled in a relationship.
Those that do try….find this communication awkward. However, we know from experience, there are ways to not only get through it, but have fun in the process! Bedroom Role Play is a way to “communicate” by playing roles and expressing your fantasies without awkward conversations. It’s one of many stepping stones to a better sex life. We plan to show you all the stones you’ll ever need in future posts.
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