Valentine’s Day Role Play Sex – The Real Reasons You Should Do It – Ditch The Routine (Part 3)

Your Valentines Day Role Play Sex Guide with ideas, scripts and games! #DitchTheRoutine2016 (Part 3)

 

Valentine’s Day Role Play Sex – The Real Reasons You Should Do It – Ditch The Routine (Part 3)

Valentine’s Day is approaching fast and now is a great time to spice up your sex life.

I know when you hear the phrase “Spice up your sex life” you may roll your eyes and think, “wow, I know…we need to try _______ instead of _______ because we always do ________”.

 

What’s the big deal?

 

(The short pitch can be seen here: Your Valentine’s Day Plans: Ditch The Routine In 2016 (Part 2) Cook Dinner & Role Play)

 

 

Below is the long pitch:

 

 

The best part about both of these pitches are….I am not “pitching” you to get a sale.

 

 

I am “pitching” you to grab the bull by the horns and spice up your sex life to benefit you! Not me.
If your sex life is already awesome, most likely you already do change things up. You spiced it up without anyone telling you about it.

 

 

If your sex life is not awesome, then maybe you have heard that you need to, “Spice it up!”, but didn’t take action.

 

 

Don’t get the wrong idea, I am not perfect. I am just saying that putting forth a little effort in the right places can yield some pretty impressive and satisfying returns. Bedroom Role Play is one of those “places”.

 

So…if you invest a few minutes planning out a great night of Role Play for you and your partner, it can lead to some great things.

 

Couples use 6 Sexy Bedroom Role Play Ideas For Couples For Best Valentine's Day Sex #DitchTheRoutine2016

 

 

Still not convinced? (If you are…feel free to scroll down a little)
Call it whatever you want, but Role Play with a partner is nothing more than an exercise or a tool to help achieve a desired result. Not that desired result…..haha. We will get to that in a second.
When we act out a scenario it allows us to take on the personality and appearance of that character. We can become someone else; when we do that, it can do a few things…
1.) Lets us get out of our own head
2.) Lets us subtlety, slowly and more safely reveal our wants, needs, sexual fantasies and desires.

 

 

If you and your partner are very honest and open about those things, Congratulations. Seriously. That’s a great place to be.

 

 

However, many couples are not. I like to think that only two dynamics categorize withholding couples having vanilla sex.

 

 

1.) The man is with a woman he thinks is inexperienced or not as sexually expressive. He withholds telling her about all of his wants, needs, sexual fantasies and desires. He has a fear of revealing these things because if he shares and she is shocked, the dynamic is changed and he is viewed more of a pervert than a partner. Probably someone that watches too much porn (her view).

 

 

2.) The woman is with a man she thinks is inexperienced or not as sexually expressive. She withholds telling him about all of her wants, needs, sexual fantasies and desires. She has a fear of revealing these things because if she shares and he is shocked, the dynamic is changed and she is viewed as more of a slut than a partner. Probably someone that has had too many partners (his view).
I try to pretend that those are the only two dynamics because to think there are couples where both partners are sexually expressive, but too afraid to share it, (so they have vanilla sex and possible split up) makes me sad. Seriously sad.

 

 

So there you have it. If you need a way to discover your partners prefrences or express your own without having a conversation about it, role play could be a great start.

 

Bedroom Role Play 101: Your quick start guide.

 

Under the cover of your chosen characters, these things you reveal and discover are not paired with your personality or preferences. If later you get asked why you tried “_________” or said “_________” you can claim you were in character.

 

 

Once these subtle things start to become more obvious from scenario to scenario you can incorporate them back into your regular sex life and better yet, talk about it.

 

 

It is a way to get to a place where you and your partner are more sexually expressive.
That leads to better sex

 

 

Better sex can streghthen the relationship.

 

 

If you still need some more info check out this post:

Still Afraid To Try Bedroom Role Play? Try This Low Risk / High Reward Scenario. Safely Explore Desires And Fantasies.
What role play scenarios are the best? Our top 6 rated scenarios are listed in this post:

Best Valentines Day Sex – Ditch The Routine! 6 Sexy Bedroom Role Play Ideas For Couples

 

 

 

This post is part of our special Valentine’s Day “#Ditch the Routine!” campaign.
A series of 7 blog posts that kick off the year with a bang and get you ready for Valentine’s Day!

 

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