Couples Role Play – Still Afraid To Try It? Best Low Risk / High Reward scenario. Safely Explore Desires and Fantasies With Couples Bedroom Role Play!

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Couples Role Play – Still Afraid To Try It? Best Low Risk / High Reward scenario. Safely Explore Desires and Fantasies With Couples Bedroom Role Play!

 

This is the first of several posts where we give examples and explain why certain role play scenarios are better than others (for beginners).

enter Goal: Show you how to get out of your own way by trying role play without the usual risk of trying something new and failing.

 

 

We want your first role play experience to show all of the buy accutane online canada pharmacy possibilities it creates instead of the risk. If that interests you…keep reading.

 

 

I’m not necessarily saying you are afraid to try bedroom role play, but if you can easily come up with many excuses not to try, keep reading and leave us a comment below.

 

(Example based on Male/Female relationship. If same sex, it still works great, just divvy up the personality traits and choose a character)

 

watch Couples Role Play Scenario:
The relaxing massage.

 

Help! He doesn’t want to try it….

If the reservations of trying Role Play are coming from the man he probably doesn’t want to act silly and end up looking foolish. In turn, killing the mood and ruining the night.

 

buy aceon online Solution: This scenario places the man in a position to say very little while expressing himself towards you in a physical manor. This is usually a great match for an intro role play scenario. The woman is either blind folded or laying face down to start so she can emotionally take this fantasy wherever she wants. At a bare minimum, as the male masseuse is massaging the woman, the only things he needs to say are:

 

“is that too hard”
“what areas would you like me to work on”
“do you have any stress built up in certain areas? Show me.”

 

I’m not sure what the percentage is, but there has to be a huge amount of woman that are with men that are very vanilla in bed. No variety. No open communication. No risk. No chance to try anything new. No clue. The last one is the worst. A stubborn man that thinks he knows it all.

 

 

What’s the problem even if you did know it all?

 

Everyone is different.

 

Some woman may like to be _______ before you move to _______.

 

 

It’s not all textbook (or maybe I should say internet to be current)

The Ego can get in the way and give men a false sence of education in this area. I’m not sure why, but that’s the truth. If a man is asked,

 

“does your partner orgasm better with oral sex or during intercourse?”
“does your partner like to orgasm together or separatily?”
“does your partner orgasm the majority of the time during sex?”

 

..and his answers are any of these:

 

“I think she…..”
“I’m not sure”
“pretty sure”
“I don’t know”

 

That’s what I am talking about. If you can’t openly communicate with your partner to find out what they want, what they need, and what they would like to try sometime, that’s a recipe for cheating, resentment, and breaking up (long & short term).

 

 

Help! She doesn’t want to try it

If the reservations of trying Role Play are coming from the women, she probably doesn’t want to act silly and end up looking foolish, killing the mood and ruining the night. This is similar to the man, often (if this couple is not completely comfortable together yet), in her mind she may worry her man will think she’s kinky or sex crazed. I’m not sure about other men, but if I was in a new relationship and my girl came to me trying to express herself sexually, in the form of some bedroom games, I’d be ecstatic. That’s the way it should be. If you are a man that is intimidated by this, let her go for men who are looking for this,  and go find a safe vanilla woman. It’s better to be honest about what you want, now, instead of blowing it up later.

 

 

All it takes is for one person to bring it up and it gives the possibility of a healthy sexual to be shared openly: 

 

Desires
Needs
Fantasies
Secrets

 

Instead of one or both going outside the relationship to an random encounter or returning to a previous sexual partner.

 

Anyway, back to it.

 

In summary, this scenario allows the man to massage the woman in a low light environment, blindfolded, while playing a masseuse.

 

He’s protected from embarrassment because he doesn’t have to say much.

 

She’s protected because she doesn’t have to say much either and is blindfolded to let her mind wander.
It’s a very low pressure situation that leaves plenty of room to grow.  There is no costumes or difficult things to setup.

 

What you need:

  • Low light
  • Blindfold (a tie or anything to wrap over your eyes is good)
  • bed (if you have a massage table…use it!)

 

 

You can read the full Scenario write up here:

Role Play Scenario: Relaxing Massage – The Masseur Gives A Sensual Massage To The Tense Woman.

 

Preview:

A male masseuse massages a female customer that is blindfolded to maximize relaxation. He eventually gets her so relaxed and turned on they start exploring each others bodies in a more intimate (no professional) manner. With others just outside the door, they must be discrete. Eventually they can’t hold back anymore and…

 

 

This is the first Bedroom Role Play Scenario we have posted in the low risk / high reward category. Great for beginners!

 

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