Your Valentine’s Day Plans – Cook Dinner & Role Play – Ditch The Routine (Part 2)
here Your Valentine’s Day Plans – Cook Dinner & Role Play – Ditch The Routine (Part 2)
So Here we are again. Valentine’s Day is coming up….
If you are in a relationship of any kind you can probably relate one of the scenarios below.
- Looking for an idea to top last years efforts with no luck.
- Procrastinating until you have to scramble to come up with something, usually making it more expensive.
- You already have a special night planned with every detail covered.
- Tying to go low key on a budget.
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If your sex life is less than exciting, these gifts and Valentine’s day plans are empty gestures attempting to make up for the fact you may be bored in the bedroom. If you are not bored in the bedroom, maybe it is your relationship in general. Maybe you are craving affection….or maybe you are one of the lucky ones that have it all figured out. If you don’t… diclofenac sodium er 50 mg tablet dr keep reading.
What most people really want….. more than an expensive dinner…..more than overpriced flowers…..fancy chocolate…and a generic card…or a new gadget…..can you guess? It obvious right?
A better connection with their partner.
Often, one partner wants a combination of more, better, nastier sex. The other….more attention / affection (non sexual in nature).
For example..He might want the combination of more, better, nastier sex. She might too, but more than that she seeks more attention / non sexual attention / affection.
So here is something that took me awhile to figure out….
She wants…..to do those (nasty sex) things (ok fellas, not every single thing, but let’s 80/20 it). She wants to be your woman. She wants to please you. Before that can happen, she has to feel like you are giving her that attention / affection (non sexual in nature). The compliments, kisses on the forehead, hugs, picking her up a silly card at the grocery store, cuddling… you get the idea.
Once you start to do those little things….you will be surprised how quick it can change. The tough part for a lot of guys is…..the “desire” to do those things increases when more, better, nastier sex is happening.
So someone usually has to “give in” or be the smart one to start the cycle. The day you do, marks the day you could instantly be in a relationship with better sex, better communication and less road rage on the way to work.
So what is something you can do instead of relying on those generic Valentine’s Day plans and gifts?
Simple…Cook dinner at home and use a little Bedroom Role Play!
Ok. Ok. Maybe that doesn’t have to be the dynamic of your Role Play, but you get the point. BTW…we have plenty of choices for your role-play (skip to those now).
- Cook a simple Dinner at home (meat / veggies / side) with optional beer / wine / favorite drink.
- Have a role play scenario already picked with optional props / outfits / room setup
(This works great even if one person doesn’t know about the role play, provided they have a little bit of an open mind. You know your partner best.)
So you now have an opportunity to incorporate some Great food & Great sex.
(Hopefully you don’t just fall asleep on the couch after eating / drinking too much)
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If you are still wondering...Why should I give this a shot?
I’m glad you asked. It’s pretty simple. There is two main reasons and they both work great!
- Maximum impact / Minimum Cost (If you only stay home, cook dinner and have some fun with role play in the bedroom the impact will be big and easy on the wallet)
- Maximum impact / Maximum Cost (If you do them both. A combination of your old routine + some of these new ideas will still cost you some $, but the impact will be huge for both of you!
Going with dinner at home + role play can make a big splash compared to the generic Valentines Day experience most will have with a minimum investment of time and money.
Now I have to tell you that I am still a fan of going out and getting a nice dinner and flowers for her. I’m not saying that you need to try role play because your trying to save some money.
I am saying you save some money staying in and having some fun in the bedroom instead of buying all the fluff gifts. Instead of spending the majority of your time in a restaurant, shoulder to shoulder you could be at home putting sex higher on your list. Instead of paying for that expensive dinner, put it towards some sexy lingerie or an an outfit for the role play scenario.
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“Clark, that’s the gift that keeps on giving throughout the entire year”
Yes…think about it. The $ you could save from going out to a fancy dinner could go towards some sexy lingerie that can get used time and time again. You can still have a nice dinner at home, you just avoid the up charge of restaurants. Also, consider getting the food you love…to go! Shop for intimates here.
I have 3 gift package ideas (Don’t worry..I’m not selling anything) and you can pick which one is best for you and your partner…(This Year)
Traditionally, there are 3 tiers of valentines day options most people fall into and they usually consist of one or all of the options listed. These tiers are mostly judged on the amount of cash you are willing to spend, regardless of how much you care about that person.
I understand it where you are in life and in your relationship plays a big role here, but you get the point. If you look at the last item in each tier you will see a common problem with going this route.
- Cheap Chocolate
- Flowers < $50 (delivered to work or home) Dinner @ lower end restaurant
- Dressing up optional
Problem on the surface: Lots of busy work and running around for an average night. When you add in all the hassle of going out on V-day night, it’s probably below average.
Problem beneath the surface: If this has been a popular option for you over the years, for many couples it means there is some neglect in the relationship. Although your probably doing better than a frequent Gold or Platinum member, this package still helps to mask issues / put them at ease (temporary). The upside here is…you probably put a little more thought into your night because it is more about getting creative to fit your budget.
- Expensive Chocolate Flowers > $50 (delivered to work or home)
- Dinner @ higher end restaurant
- Dressing up is mandatory
Problem on the surface: Depending on your choices, you will likely spend almost as much as a platinum with less impact and still have the hassle of running around, waiting in lines…etc
Problem beneath the surface: If this has been a popular option for you over the years, for a lot of couples it means there may be some neglect in the relationship. Although your probably doing better than a frequent Platinum member, this package still helps to mask issues / put them at ease (temporarily).
- Flowers > $50 (delivered to work or home)
- Dinner @ higher end restaurant
- Dressing up is mandatory
Problem on the surface: Not many except the cost. Higher end choices usually mean less hassle and better customer service across the board so the only “problem” on the surface is the cost.
Problem beneath the surface: If this has been a popular option for you over the years, it probably means there is probably some neglect in the relationship and this package helps mask them / put them at ease (temporarily). Potentially, the more you spend and the more “high end” and “fancy” it looks on the surface, the more underlying issues you may have. This isn’t for everyone…
Now before you get all up in arms about me dogging your V-day routine, understand this: I get that not everyone chooses their night options because they are in bad relationship where buying gifts and going out is the only way to keep going. I’m saying, some people do. They know who they are and maybe if they didn’t know…this post will help them realize it.
The best part is…….Drumroll again………
You can do both!!!!!!
- Go to dinner, order dessert to go, and come home. RP in the bedroom, have great sex, and eat the dessert in bed afterwards.
- Cook Dinner @ home, but get dressed up like you are going out
- Order her flowers and send them to her work to make her friends jealous
- If she stays / works from home, still send them because you know they will end up on FB!
The combinations are endless….Yes, you can do the things you used to do (or at least some of them)…..but know you are doing them for the right reasons.
To compliment an already special and fun night. Not to have them be the headliner.
It’s like I heard someone once say:
“Don’t drink if you are sad. Only Drink if you are celebrating!”
Meaning, use the gifts to take an already great night to the next level. Not have the gifts be the best part of the night!
My Vote would be to do this:
- Send her flowers to where ever she will be that day
- If you have kids, take them grandmas or your version of that
- Send each other a few flirty texts throughout the day (one of our apps works great for this)
- Meet at home
- Either he makes dinner or you do it together
- He gets her some chocolate that you can both enjoy for a mini dessert after sex
- Head to the bedroom or wherever your scenario will take place
- Have a little role play fun / great sex
Or maybe some late night ice cream or chocolate.
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